![]() ![]() Always use proper rope, never twine, washing line or anything too thin.’ Make a sex tape Never tie into the crease of a joint as this can cause circulation problems. ‘And remember’, he added, Always keep a pair of safety shears in your rope bag. He said: ‘It’s easy to get started with rope, check out Two Knotty Boys and their book Showing you the Ropes as a simple getting started guide.’ We previously asked Neil, a longtime shibari enthusiast, for tips for beginners. ![]() Having sex in a car can be a great bit of spur-of-the-moment fun.Īll you need to do is park up somewhere quiet and secluded when the mood takes you, and enjoy the thrill of the danger of getting caught.Īlong with being thought of as erotic, shibari – or the ancient Japanese art of bondage – is also used for mental stimulation and relaxation. Why not start off your next sexual encouner with a massage, rubbing the oil, well, wherever you want. Popular in pornos, body oil can be pretty flattering and sexy when applied generously. If you’re curious but a bit tentative, try starting off with some light spanking and hair pulling. ‘Rough’ is a pretty subjective term – as long as everything is consensual and no one is in danger of serious harm, you can be as rough or semi-rough as you like. If not, then hopefully you won’t have to wait too long… Rough sex If you’re willing to do that, then full steam ahead. Unfortunately, until the pandemic is in the past, the only way to have a threesome is to commit to having that person in your social bubble. Why not take turns picking a clip, so one of you gets to pick out something they know they like while the other will get the thrill of a surprise. If you and your partner both enjoy watching porn solo, then there’s a good chance you’ll enjoy it together too. There’s a world of dildos, vibrators, butt plugs and more to explore, with an ever-expanding list of things you can add to your toy chest – have fun shopping around with your partner to see what they like too. Whatever you’re into, chances are there’s a sex toy out there for you. Probably another one for when we’re a bit more ‘back to normal’, one of the safest places to practice exhibitionism is in a sex club or similar environment.Īlternatively, if you find a few like-minded individuals and have top-notch cyber-security, you could organise a group video chat to see if doing it remotely works for you. That way you and your partner can look to your heart’s content around consenting adults while they get their freak on. This one might have to wait until the vaccine comes in, because if you’re into watching people getting down and dirty you might considder going to a sex club. ![]() Sometimes it can be nice to put the shoe on the other foot, if the other foot is keen.īeginners could try using fingers and toys before graduating to a strap-on. Then, have them blindfold you and make you guess which ones they’re using on you. Whether you like the sound of hot wax and nipple clamps or feathers and sexy whispers, why not tell your partner some of your favourite sounds, tastes and sensations. Sensation play can be a part of BDSM, but it doesn’t have to be all pain if that’s not what you’re into. If you’re one of those interested parties who has never done it before, you might want to start with smaller toys first and talking with your partner about the possibility of douching. ![]() It’s simple and straightforward but no less true – plenty of people fantasise about anal, especially if they’re curiousbut it’s not something they’ve done with their partner before. ![]()
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